‘IF YOU DON’T BLEED THE FIRST TIME YOU HAVE SEX, YOU ARE NOT VIRGIN’
Truth :
Inside the vagina is the hymen, which is stretchy and flexible. In fact, it’s more like stretchy lace than a solid covering. So it is very possible it will not tear the first time you have sex. Hymens come in different shapes and sizes too – some are thin fibre, like elastic band, which the penis can easily squeeze past.
‘I ALWAYS USE CONDOMS SO I CAN’T CATCH ANY DISEASES’
Truth :
Condoms do not provide absolute protection against herpes, genital warts, scabies, “crabs” and molluscum contagiosum as infection sites may lie outside the condom, in the public region
'MEN WAKE UP WITH AN ERECTION BECAUSE THEY ARE AROUSED'
Truth :
During sleep, pressure is placed upon the lower spine, which causes an erection in males. Plus certain hormones rise at night, which can trigger an erection. Males perceive this erection as 'arousal' and it's this that gets them to rocket the fireworks!
'YOU HAVE TO RELAX YOUR MIND AND BODY OR YOU WILL NEVER REACH ORGASM'
Truth :
Do not let this myth cheat you out of satisfaction. In order to reach orgasm, you must tense major muscle groups such as the stomach, arms and legs. Instead of relaxing the mind, it helps to focus on erotic toughts. It doesn't sound romantic but orgasm is partly a reflex that occurs when there is enough blood in the genitals and tension in the muscles.
‘USING CONTRACEPTIVE PILL WILL AFFECT MY FUTURE FERTILITY’
Truth :
Most of the time, it takes about six months for a couple to conceive a child, no matter whether the female was using the contraceptive pill before or not. Once you stop using the pill, your ability to conceive will return. That’s why missing just one pill can cause you to fall pregnant. Many believe a break from the pill is good for the body. Well, this is not true. So, make sure you take the pill as prescribe so that you won’t get pregnant when both of you are not yet ready for it!
‘MEN WHO ORGASM QUICKLY ARE SELFISH! THEY JUST THINK OF THEIR OWN FUN’
Truth :
The majority of men who experience rapid ejaculation do not feel pleasurable sensations upon ejaculation. Often he feels guilty, cheated and embarrassed.
'I KNOW WHEN MY GIRL NEED aka DESIRE ME, SHE GETS EXCESSIVE WET INSIDE'
Truth :
Although wetness is a hint to female arousal, the amount of wetness also varies due to the time of the month, and it also varies from one woman to another. Swelling of the woman's labia are a more accurate clue
Two out of three women cannot orgasm without clitoral stimulation. Sometimes, the stimulation need to last for 20 mins to an hour. So,when men worry about the size, women mostly agree that connecting emotionally and physically with men leads to the great sparkling!
